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Wednesday, January 26, 2005

Mothers-in-law. Hate them or love them they are always around when you don't want them to be around. Both of my mothers-in-law are great. The previous one a little bit more timid than the current one.

Yesterday I asked Ash whether his elder brother had kept in touch with him. He said no but the person did call the mother up to tell her that he had no money to eat. The mother called...who else...Ash and asked to borrow $30 which she would return this weekend. Luckily Ash was at work so he couldn't oblige his mother. She borrowed from Mas, the other daughter-in-law whose house she was in residence.

I told Ash I was sorry. Even though that is his mother and he is his brother I cannot permit him to give even a cent. I told him he had helped out enough. I was a little pissed off at his mother because she knows exactly the kind of son she has. She had specifically told me the other time she won't give any cash too. Ash said in spite of everything that is still her son. I know that. I understood that mothers won't abandon their children but still...

I told Ash I trust him with our finances. Me...I'm a spendthrift while he knows how to put aside a little bit of money for a rainy day. I told him I trust him not to do anything behind my back. If he did...He said everything decision he made he has always discussed it with me. Which is true.

Now is the time for us to save up for our marriage..our future. I don't need this kind of problem cropping up in our life. Having arguments about your in-laws...you can never win. So I try to adjust and take things easy. And when I do that people thought they can walk all over me. Idiots! I'm binding my time to get my way. I won't get much way actually when Ash is so yielding when his mother is concerned :-P That also pisses me off.

Bitching about mothers-in-law tskkk tskkk tskkk... Bad bad bad me heheh

i'm watching you...
Wednesday, January 26, 2005

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